Sex Drive

My lady and I have had a little trouble with sex drive lately ... she asked me as we ate our dinner at the bar of a restaurant if I thought we were sexually incompatible.  She sad she needed nurturing, I said I need more risk in our sex.  


We put it on the table, acknowledge the problem and both kissed each other.  There was no blame or accusations, just love.  We didn't have a solution, but we love each other enough to consider the options.

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Comments (3)

  1. freewriter32

    And that’s how it should be. You both felt your feelings were heard and you managed to work it out. It’s a delicate subject yet you guys did it. Not everyone can do that. It’s probably why you can survive having an open relationship, it takes special skills like really good communication and lots of trust.

    June 21, 2017
    1. RRoe

      That’s been awhile … we have evolved a great deal since we have known each other. I would love to try to teach others what we have learned about ourselves and others. I’m not sure what we have would be called an open relationship … its liberal for sure … I am more comfortable with her freedom than she is with mine. But, we are transparent and loving with each other and more or less take one day, one event at time. Big subject … but we really do work as love partners.

      June 21, 2017
  2. RRoe

    P.S. we have a new game going on at the moment … I’m getting into being paddled.

    June 21, 2017