My lady and I have had a little trouble with sex drive lately ... she asked me as we ate our dinner at the bar of a restaurant if I thought we were sexually incompatible. She sad she needed nurturing, I said I need more risk in our sex.
We put it on the table, acknowledge the problem and both kissed each other. There was no blame or accusations, just love. We didn't have a solution, but we love each other enough to consider the options.